As an event planner it is imperative to the success of your events that you follow the following axiom. Don’t hide the elephant in the living room. Let me repeat this, as an event planner it is completely unwise to hide the elephant in the room.  Let’s first start with a definition of the term for those of you who are unsure what I mean by not hiding the elephant in the room. An elephant in the room is a problem that everyone knows very well but no one talks about because it is taboo, em...